Ways Ive Come Up Higher In God Not Conceit but Godfidence!

March 25th 2025

Happy Tuesday Chooseday!
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You know there is freedom contrary to what people think in living a life for God! God knows at times as you go along its not easy in what you encounter! You need to make up your mind come hell or high water you will serve God. As you get closer to him expect the fiery darts from Satan/the Devil to keep coming and trust me its from the most unexpected ways! 😳You have to hold on to the rock who is Christ Jesus! If you keep him first and follow him you can't go wrong! The Bible says He is the way the truth and the life! People will come, go , act crazy around you but when your eyes are fixed on the master you can smile 😏and say you will love others despite what they do! Its amazing how the Lord gets in you to give you strength to deal like that!

This life is about laying down our lives! Its not your will be done! Its Gods will be done! Its about putting others first! Caring about people! Its everything Jesus did on the earth! We are not to forever be in our churches feeding off the word of God! Of course go as such but we are to take what we learn in our Bibles to the world in our daily lives! Its getting in conversation with the stranger at the grocery store then sharing about God or his son Jesus John 3 :16 and an invitation to church! Evangelism and outreach must be forever on the saved Christian’s mind! You know half of us in church are already saved children of God. So this means all of our ministries we concentrate on to do within our churches help reach Ill say building up those who already know God! We may reach those online -yes and a very few visitors and that's what we want! But to go the extra mile in our daily walk -passing out in mailboxes our church invite cards and on the streets, at the job, at the ball game,on a vacation just anywhere we are to look for opportunities to tell others about God and his son Jesus or to invite them to church! Jesus led the way! He was in the streets! He was everywhere! He was never locked into a church building on a daily! Although he does say assemble ourselves together as we do to build us up but we have to be mindful as well real work and evangelism really should be on the heart of those who love ❤️ God! It is nice to have a balance of going to church a few times a week and other times used to intentionally go out in the community! I may do this on occasion in my daily life but to be honest not enough. Sometimes with a lot of us it's fear of rejection! I know I did outreach once passing out invites and people said to me a big Noo! People just don't think this thing is important or real! But Jesus is coming he said for a church without spot or wrinkle and I can seee it may be real soon by all the book of Revelations its predicted! We must also have people come as they are! Clothing/ sin etc! Make them welcome because many feel they are too unholy to attend church when churches should be hospitals for those in need of a healing or a change in their lives from God!

My mother in law had this saying on her wall for years Obedience! Discipline and Order and now has it where she is at! We need to also give it all to God not some things and not others! If we say we love ❤️God we have to show an example of being obedient to his scriptures and Godly principles in the Bible! Sure I'm not perfect in everything but see God will perfect you daily as you surrender to his will and you will feel so uncomfortable by his Holy Spirit (who lives inside each believer in Jesus Christ) to have things that are not Godly in your life! As always I direct you to John 3:16, 17 These scriptures are your life source and your first step to change and to have peace, joy and everlasting life! Jesus says after we obtain salvation we should be baptized as another commandment! There is one account that a man on the cross beside Jesus when he was on the cross reached out to him to save him and Jesus said “Today you will be with me in Paradise” so in certain circumstances Jesus has allowed people to be with him even without baptism because there was just no way that man could be baptized before he died up there on a cross. I'll just say this is me but I believe if a person on their dying bed says Jesus save me and believe in their hearts they will be with God in the end as well! Always study for yourself! I appreciate anyone from a pulpit leading me or a minister etc but I don't take things on right away if I'm unsure. It has to be in that word of God or I'm not taking it on. I've learnt this through the years because sometimes if we are not careful self and our own belief systems taught get into things we hear in sermons. This is a general thing not pinpointing anyone in particular to cause hurt or division but its the absolute truth! I've been around church a long time since a child and was a very quiet person. These last few years I've become more outspoken as God has led me to. Some have appreciated my online sharing but I know it may be a handful that think I need to shut up🤣

All I know God has in my spirit that my silence and people pleasing era has been coming to an end! Its my pouring out time of what he has put in me to help others! This platform and other socials can be used for the bad but we children of God have to use them as tools for Gods glory! God has in me that he has called me for purpose and it don't have to involve ordained minister papers.but making things official always make people feel good or help you gain respect from others.God to be honest has used any old body He will use me as I am and he's doing it with many! God can use a donkey if he wanted to! 🤣Sometimes you speak the truth to folk in love they think you are not being nice no matter how fluffy it sounds! Nowadays if I'm spoke to with disrespect or done in such a way that is unacceptable to me I may let people know! Its high time that at 51 years old I transition here because God doesn't want me to live as a doormat or under peoples feet! I've been told God if its just you and me and connections around and no one super close then so be it! I love others best I can and try to give out kindness,selflessness etc! I expect the same from others or you can't be close and I have to love you from a distance! I have worked too hard with the help of God to get to the Trina I am today and ill protect my emotional health at all costs! I love ❤️me even more today than yesterday so if anyone is disrespecting, not a genuine friend or a fake friend around me my radar is up because another thing God gave me is a gift to discern! I pick up on a vibe in a minute and I can smile and laugh with you and love on you because thats just the God in me but trust and know if you are not for me, jealous indifferent whatevever lol I eventually know because God tells me either by your actions or if I'm uncomfortable and not at ease around you! Don't think as soon as you mess up with me I don't forgive and let you in though! I've done this with others many a times! Also with really not so good done to me in terrie ways! Now if you are super toxic and don't change you may have to go but if you show me change ill forgive because the Lord is my example who forgives us numerous times! I thank my Lord Jesus for not writing me off like man when I was in valley experiences and being my forever protector and friend! When you really encounter Jesus in your life you wont be able to be without him and your life journey will be so sweet!
Everything I share may be topics I know I've heard others like to hear about in Christian communities or to educate those who don't have knowledge or understand  the gospel of Jesus Christ. I may speak the truth in intentions of love but never to hurt anyone or to make you feel guilty about your life -just to bring about Godly change. Remember even I know every day of my life I'm not perfect but in Gods hands he can convict us all to rise up to be victorious over sin! One day at a time we are changed!❤️🌺🌷💐
Here below was checking out Kingston, Ontario with a new friend in my life who happens to be exactly around my age! She's been quite a God send with much we have in common in how we both think and do! Its great to have people you can be relatable to that welcome you in like family,spend quality time and accept you for you when you are so far from your country of birth!

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Friday Jan 10th 2025

A great one for your 2025 to keep in check by this lady here from Tik Tok! I'm trying to get the video added but this is basically what she is saying in her video See it also on my Facebook under Tri L. Graham if you can't get it here I'll also add my Facebook link below for easy access@🥳🎉🎆☝🏽Be sure to examine all your ships to be sure they are going places and there is no anchor in any! All relationships and wherever you are be sure you are encouraged to be your best self for God and you are able to grow to evolve to be better. You don't feel controlled or blocked by those you are in relationship with to be your best self either and no jealousy! You are a priority in their lives etc.! Anytime you feel like you are left out of the group or just not preferred when you are around is when you may need to find a new ship and crew to sail with! God never said to hang around people who tolerate you!☝🏽🙉 It's about a celebration 🥳🎉 that you are around when you are in the company of others! It's high time we level up what we may have been dealing with through the years! It's going to be uncomfortable but it will be known you don't take any old treatment from others! It's not about being rude on this post. It's about loving you, if this hits home for you!
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JAN 3rd 2025!

GET YOUR STRENGTH BACK IN 2025! TIPS ON HOW TO DEAL WITH OTHERS! ☝🏽🎉🎉🥳🎆💃🏽🤸🏽‍♀️

Happy Friyay to one and all! ♥️🎉I hope your 2025 is going to be even a better year than the last! I will press to that end too! I'm determined!
Today's Jan 3rd 2025  blog post! Be inspired to live your best life reading my blog. It can help you find tactics in how to deal in life! Plus enjoy my fashion tips, recent news recipes and more go to the Menu on the top right!

In these last few years up to 2025 God has taught me how to stand on my own two feet whether people love♥️ on me or whether they don't. I feel this is something everyone should obtain so you don't crumble if everyone leaves you in friendships. Yes I'm human I hurt like the next but my God has me stronger nowadays to let things fly off the back after a few sad thoughts and many tools I use to not let things get me down. A few years up to 2025 have helped me to see that it doesnt matter who you are some will do any and anything to have others love them. I was doing it a bit too I believe but I made sure I got this one in check over the last few years. I learned when in the past I found myself doing this at times it got exhausting. I'm one I do try to love♥️ on anyone. A great gift to have but you have to be careful or you get hurt . I still will as such but you have to know your people or as they say inner circle. Know your outer circle as well. The ones you have the small chit chat with. They are with you in your establishment at the job or elsewhere but are never super close. God always gives you signs or its just obvious when others are not feeling you or basically wanting you close. I told myself these last few years come hell or high water let the chips fall where they may, now if it comes to it being almost like its me and God fighting life together than so be it!☝🏽I'd rather it be that than anyone being with me or hanging with me out of obligation or envious of me. It's so easy to tell after awhile if this is going on in your life if you study hard enough what's going on. If people prefer to spend time with others over you it's a sure sign you are not a priority in their lives. I'm stepping up higher. You better believe it! I deserve others who I can tell love♥️🫂 my company and it's no question. It definitely was too much pushing others to be friendly in my past. God says to make yourself friendly and I followed his lead but you stop at the point when it's not given back to you. At that point It's about leaving then to themselves and if you see them act in love and just say hi or perhaps it may fe a conversation. It's not about half heartedness as acceptable either. That's going out of my life as well. You have to draw the line or you lose your self respect and the other person thinks it as well about you that you take anything It gets obvious they are not interested as you are in being friendly.
Lol so if you see me and not too many are around me that's what's happening. 😂 As the saying goes and I'm changing it a bit - I can do good all by myself! My life needs to be left open for the ones God has to be encouragers, motivators and never haters, folk making you feel left out or people envious of who God made me to be! I want to have those who want me to help them shine in their gifts and them to help me shine with no jealousy about the gifts we possess. It's the come over anytime I'm free type of people I prefer and live to have around. Those I don't feel on edge with I'm just at home. It's the off and on invites out that I love and want from an inner circle type person in my life. I'm a fan of upfront people as well. Tell me straight up if there is a problem you have with me and we can sort it out and solve a disagreement! Please! No half truths just to keep the peace. Be honest. I do have a faithful few I can rely on as friends but people are never perfect and we do have to give people grace as friends if they trip up and hurt us but if you see a continuous stream of that☝🏽😂 it may be time to find new friends! 💯Lol excuse me if this post is not your cup of tea but you can keep scrolling if you like. This post can actually help you to sort out how you are dealing with others as well. Some may take this one way +she's complaining but everything I share I think -Can this help someone. I try to make this platform all about helping others. It can get not so fluffy in feeling on my posts perhaps but I share my experiences of course with no names attached to help you as well. I want to help you be stronger. If you all knew where I've been in my journey in life you would see why in where I am now in my wholeness as a person why I'm so passionate about helping others to gain that strength within especially if you lost it! Strength within I'll always say comes from God. I know because I lost it and I did spend time with good friends and family pray, seek positive scriptures but I couldn't get myself right on my own .I didn't work to get it back! God gave it back to me☝🏽💯 and he gave me -ME back and better!💃🏽🤸🏽‍♀️Praise ye the Lord for deliverance and breakthrough! Thanking God for my 52nd year! Half a century is here for me it makes me say Wow and a song comes to mind- " I made it over "😂!

 NEW YEARS MESSAGE Jan 1st 2025!!!🎈🎉🥳🥳🎆🙏🏾🙏🏾✝️📖

Happy New Year everyone!♥️🎈🎇🥳🎉 New Years Eve until the day pics here! I enjoyed my time with thankfulness to God at church with an after celebration in another area at our church with lots of fun and festivity. Thank you Pentecostals of Quinte for your generosity of my bag filled with treats thrown out for fun 🥳🎉 by our Pastors and the Pizza party was nice with a variety of different options! I then had a sudden invite to a house get together for New Years day which was so nice!♥️🎈🎇🥳
I purpose to make my life positive and great no matter what's going on because it's true about Pastors Shawn Sticklers message last night which was similar to what I'm saying that you just have to basically make the best of the time you have or it ticks away fast and you wasted it. I did have times like that that were hard to get out of and was wasting time that could have been happier but things traumatic happen or just challenge our happiness so we go through. We shouldn't beat up on ourselves but as long as you push and ask God to help you to get out of it and you will! One day you are totally free! Do things also that you enjoy in the midst of disappointments etc and it really helps to get your happiness back and positive scripture in the Bible!
Keep pushing keep striving for your prosperity, your health- physically and mentally in your 2025!🎉 Keep believing God and asking him what he wants you to do with your life. It's not your will be done or shouldn't be, it needs to be his to be living the best life you can. It's always what he wanted you to do in life which is best for you. Seek God in all things and you will find joy 🤸🏽‍♀️in life more even in the midst of things you are not pleased with going on around you. You know what ? It's exactly like this for me. I have God's joy in the midst of things not going my way!Things go on but I don't get as perplexed as I used to. God gives me strength to deal nowadays and I just fight for my peace and happiness. Happy 2025 to All!🎉🥳🎇🎈🎈♥️♥️ 

Lady friends at my Pentecostals of Quinte Church in Trenton We are at the large Belleville Campus New Years Eve service and celebration ♥️🎈🎇🎆🎉🥳

NEW YEARS DAY GOING TO AN OPEN  HOUSE PARTY!♥️🎈🎉🥳

Today's Blog! Hardship in Relationships with others! How to still Win!

November 29th what we call 2024 BLACK FRIDAY!

Good day everyone! I love♥️ this and it's so true because I've lived what this man is saying right here. No one after a while wants to be around when you are in hardship. They sometimes don't want to talk to you and want to write you off. If they are good people or Godly they should be there for you no matter what. It's a tough pill to swallow but in my hard times I grabbed my scriptures and held on to the promises until I saw change.

If you are God's child with the salvation in John 3 :16,17 It's so true that you will suffer persecution/hardship/being rejected and I'll tell you people will come up against you for the most simple reasons or to be honest no super reason. It's what you carry. God inside you! The Holy Spirit and people think it's their business to dim your light at times.

Watch and be aware who is close to you or trying to be close to you. Be wise as a serpent as it says in the Bible 📖✝️and harmless as a dove. Just know that some are close and are jealous of you and it's sad to say because everyone has a gift💝🎁 and a light to shine into the world especially if you have accepted Jesus into your life. Maybe they are unaware and they want to be so sure they are shining over you is why you see them acting an moving the way they do around you

I'm a watcher. I was super quiet in my youth so much so I didn't like to so much let myself shine in life and I am good at discerning hearts and intentions over time with this type of personality. You have to seriously choose your friends and inner circle close ones so wisely. I have a host of people online and offline I connect with and I love on people whether I know you have treated me wrong or not. I know when you didn't really mean it or you walked in the flesh had a jealous moment or if you are an all out good good friend. I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt. I've seen folk do me wrong and turn it around never say sorry if I hurt you but instead say you did something to me in all this and also say I need to learn to forgive. Go figure that!😂 No one likes to be wrong or admit it I'm telling you the truth!😂

It may be perceived even that I'm stuck on stupid 😂 because I don't outright tell people all the time they did me wrong. But when a person is really eating at me and since if grown a lot in the Lord the boldness strikes and I tell others if they are not doing me right. You see this one right here (that's me lol) may keep you around even if you disrespected me and others wouldn't do that People have distespected once, twice, not to mention 3 times. After that you may have a certain access to me but it's not in the way that I'll say my inner circle friends would have. I've been to hell and back in hard places in life many have never seen. I don't look a drop right now of what I've been through because of my God taking me through and I worked hard to recover the me with God's help and I'll cross rivers to be sure I stay ok! I fight to not let anyone hinder my spirit again and yes I should have never allowed myself to get to the low places I did but all things work together for good. I'm now trying to help others out in the same predicament. My thing or mantra as they call it in life right now is to live for God and try to be a light in life. In making this solid in my life it has caused the enemy or the devil to rise up against me through others. It's not even who I would call evil people but we have to realize even those who make the name of Jesus as a Christian can take on being used by the enemy Satan in different circumstances and to be honest not realize it's happening perhaps. If you feel this is you too it's ok not to let questionable people close to you. Basically if in your interaction with them if you have to question if they are a good friend then sad to say maybe they truly are not.🥲Let them go nicely dear one or chaos in your life could be in the horizon.
Also another way to tell a good person to be in your life just check out how they prioritize you. Do they call or text at some point, do they go out of their way to spend time with you and another big one for me - Do they say they are often busy and you go ahead and respect that. Then you see them invite out others and not you or just find time for anyone in the community besides you 😂 Lord have mercy folks! We have to wake up and get our self respect in gear. I mean 2025 is coming and I want to get this in place in full force in my life. I fir the most part have this type of things together but it could be sometimes I'm allowing people to have an inch in and shouldn't even have that because once they do they may feel or see you as weak so you have to create a basically an access card with people to get into your life. If they can't meet certain criteria just don't let them in. You are inviting chaos and hurt to enter your life once you let in jealous spirits, envious spirits, backbiting spirit s and those who always find something on you are the ones to minus away as well. They will never see all the good you have in you because they are looking for the bad. Be wise everyone in all your interactions and friendships. Let's level up where God ♥️✝️will have us because truth be told God tells us we are the Head and not the Tail! Watch out if you have a quiet spirit! Work on speaking up for yourself as you go through life!♥️I in the past have felt disrespected and seen as underneath in this type of personality. I lived it. I really did so I know what I'm talking about here not just finding solutions for you without going through it myself. God did a work in me that no one can take away because man didn't transform me but God did through my prayers and the prayers of others. I trust the Lord only. I respect leaders in churches but they are man as well and not every sermon is coming from God mouth. It may have a little self put in. I've been in church my whole life so I know that one too. Relationship with God is important to get you through or you'll leave a church or go from job to job because of dissatisfaction so super fast.
When you find yourself in that lonely place tap into God as your friend. I've been here as well. God will be just that and he will send you the right people to be around you in your life if you ask him. I'll say once they come in don't you stop putting God as your first friend because he should be. Let's end here before the 10 page essay starts up😂. Hope this helps somebody in their dealings with others and friendships today. Peace and love. Seasons greetings!♥️🎀👩🏽‍🍼✝️ Jesus is the reason for the season! Be strong in the Lord it says in the Bible and the power of his might -Its true you have to put your armour on - The whole armour of God in this day and age and fight to the end for your peace, your sanity, your health and your finances! 😂 It may be so much more! God is your source and it's not yourself making you succeed in life . When we all realize that this game in life changes so much for the better

Happy Canada weekend everyone celebrating and happy Saturday to those in other countries!. Tris-world.com

How do You Want to be Remembered!?

You know what in the long run you are a valuable asset wherever you go if you carry this - God's love🧡🧡✝️🙏🏽! If you are always trying to be kind you will be known for it. It's important we know for God life is about making impact for him not all the getting degrees so much to make income to be wealthy and buying stuff. Also to be honest you'll be known when you pass on more by people for how you treated them, your acts of kindness and helping people Its important yes that we obtain a good education because opportunities would be better for higher income. If you go around just saying you have a paper in this and that but you disrespect others, treat them unkind or less than you yourself would want to be treated, those that you hurt may forgive but see you in a new light.
I try to be a forgiver a helper,a lover and put my best foot forward. Sometimes no matter how nice I try to be somehow others find something on me!🤣
If your a believer in Jesus Christ you see higher purpose in things. I'm cool staying home I've made money in online business although I want to go out to earn for a set income because it's not in stone what you will make week to week online But I sure love it it's actually fun
to me!💥 If anyone has another online business they think could produce a decent income for me please send it to my inbox!I love working from home! 💥
I've found with the homemaker life God's got me available more to help others and my purpose still gets fulfilled for him even without having a degree job or the ability to buy this and that. I'm not stupid the Bible says if a man don't work you can't eat .But God also talks about a Titus woman her husband may work while she works from the home. It's not just laundry or cooking. It can be finding a way to make a source of income from home and mine is all offered to you on Tristreasures.com. Have a look. 👀A big world opened up to me when I've been at home as a homemaker. This website I created is your one stop place to look and feel good I have boutiques( for ladies, men, & kids, jewelry, health and wellness tested to be safe , makeup(skincare infused), fragrances, green cleaning products & more! You can see shares like this post how I chit chat with you on my blog , my favorite music, recipes and the latest news. The natural foods family business Natural Life Marketplace is also here. If you know us or are new to my page I invite you to look at what we have and support us if you can Also join my groups on this site and my social media. You also can support people I know on my website

Last thought - Are you on this earth to cause impact or just do what you think is normal get a good job and buy things to be happy. You gotta realize yes make yourself in position to earn more to get a house go on trips! All that! But rest assured at the end of the day you will be remembered for more if you were good at forgiving others readily, your overall kind ways, how you went out of your way to be there for others and to help them. Basically it's how you loved 🧡🦃in this world will be in their minds more that hearing about your education or accomplishments at your celebration of life. These are things I want to instill in my life and set in place first!
Happy Thanksgiving weekend to Canada! MY FOOD IS COOKED!
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Please understand I will be sending a link around for you to vote for me. All is required is a free vote or a paid one. It just helps me more and Breast cancer research if you do an amount. I believe it has to be $10 and up it is equivalent to more votes than 1 . I thank you in advance to those who will do this simple task of voting each day for me. It's always the same website I sent in the beginning to vote. Thank you everyone. Just looking at my posts, doing a purchase,/ joining what I have, liking or loving , commenting and being here you are a blessing and a gift to me so with that I say a big THANK YOU !🧡🦃🍁🙋🏽‍♀️

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October 11th 2024 

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Happy Pre Thanksgiving Weekend Canada! 🧡🦃🦃🍁🍂

Don't you worry if you you make mistakes God loves you just as you are. He knows when you are trying to live right. But we can try to be good people all we want but we are not God's children until we understand in the Bible John chapter 3 verse 16 and act on it

Have a happy Friyay! It's a crisp Fall🧡🍁🍂 morning here. The temperature is just right not too hot or too cold. I see a bright blue sky and no clouds.
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🙋🏽‍♀️Ladies Breakfast invite below  - Quinte West Ontario Canada!

🙋🏽‍♀️ Inspirational message/Scripture of the day

BE FOCUSED ITS HOW YOU SEE THINGS 

OCTOBER 8TH 2024

Happy Monday! Yes Mondays can be happy with God and the right mindset. Let's encourage and inspire you with today's Tris World Blog Message- Find the positive in everything in life!

It's how we see 👀🔍things. The glass to someone can be half empty and to the next person half full as the saying goes. I have seen in my own life that by being thankful and content in your current state of being makes you a happier person. Yes I'm human life gets tough you murmur and complain to others you are close to about it. As long as you catch it and try to resort to prayer 🙏🏽🙏🏽with God and thinking up solutions then that would be a better road to take after. Sometimes we must point out negatives in job meetings or organizations about the place but always have a positive suggestion on how to make the negative going on better and more positive. Don't just point the finger because you appear as a critical individual not a person trying to help with solutions.

It is Thanksgiving 🍂🍁🦃🦃🦃in Canada soon then later in November the U.S.A. Let us be mindful to give thanks for all we have in our lives not just material but friends and family. You could have all the money in the world but if you don't have family or friends it could make life sad and lonely. Here is a scripture I've held on to in the past and believed Isaiah 41:10. " Be not afraid for I am with thee be not dismayed for I am thy God I will help thee I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness."I noticed over time not microwave but I soon realized one day I was stronger within. God answers prayers. It wasn't in my own strength but God showed up for me right on time. ♥️🙏🏽📖✝️‼️🙋🏽‍♀️💃🏽🕺🏽🤸🏽‍♂️Peace and love to one and all. Each one of you are special with gifts💝 and if you allow God to use you correctly you can become a blessing to those around you in the way he wants you to be
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A little of my island of birth Bermuda and a Harbour nights Wednesdays event they have in the summer I'm with my good friend Theresa Bean

Flatts Inlet in Bermuda my island of birth

October 4th 2024

Happy Friyay! 🍁🍂💃🏽🤸🏽‍♂️Weekends here! Out and about again I see a hint of Fall🍂🍁 but Christmas 🎄is taking over!😂
Tris World Blog today Tris-world.com
Enjoy Life it can be Short
I do my best to enjoy life best I can because I see that life is short after seeing it first hand. Here are some suggestions to enhance your life
Find a church home. Above all know God him first will help your happiness
Listen to uplifting music🎶 I do gospel, praise and worship upbeat Caribbean style Christian songs as well. Romantic songs for my husband 😂
If your into fashion💃🏽 - Treat yourself once a month
If you love🧡 to play games have games night with friends and family.
If you see you talk to someone new a lot invite them over for a meal
If you like walking or nature go out a few times a week there
Get a massager to de-stress your body after a long day or if you have money go to a masseuse once a month
Get your hair done as often as you can
Do things for others. This thing had been really uplifting my life and it's been more fulfilling thinking of others needs.🍂🍁
Just simply go to your friends house to talk if they are good with that
By any means necessary as my Aunt says at her church 😄 it's so good if you have the means to bless or help others - give rides to others, send a gift for birthdays, call friends or family or just reach out then from time to time, road trips. Still go on planned dates with your partner never let things get dull, travel if you can, volunteer in any capacity needed etc These things make you happy for you and the other person are happy as well. Just some ideas to enhance your life ✴️🍁🍂 Live life and more abundantly!💃🏽💃🏽🤸🏽‍♂️🕺🏽

September 19th 2024

 Happy Humpday to you all!🧡🍁🍂 
When you know about the forgiveness of your God you do it yourself so easily. You know as I said the last post I'm not good at being mad at individuals angry or acting bitter all I know is love. It gets uneasy to face others when you disagree but you really can't be in connection with someone and be true to the person or God for that matter if you are fake with others and you feel a way about them smile😊 in their face and don't say issues you have with them. It's really not love to try to agree with everything a person says or does so they like you . Yes please don't have a problem with them at every turn because that may be too judgmental but it comes a time when you have to tell people if they wronged you or did something you dont like. If they see it as this person I don't like anymore and they don't receive what you say then you can't change how a person feels but know you kept to your truth and how to be in life to not let people see you as a pushover or a doormat that takes any treatment which is freeing. You are God's masterpiece to be treated with respect as a King or Queen.

God keeps forgiving us the Bible says so many times he will. Let people go because if you don't you hurt your own self more. It eats you up inside with bitterness and hate at times which are not things God wants in your life. I have learned to be open to constructive criticism but if I notice an individual I let into my space is always telling me something is wrong with me I question how constructive it is really. I mean something can't always be wrong .I just equate it to a possible putting down so they feel better or they are just jealous perhaps. I don't envy anyone in their gift🎁 and callings because God gave me my own and I'm too busy pursuing or trying to find out everything God would have me to do! I know it's been some shares on here that hit hard but I'm sure that some will benefit and others may see it as something else. A lot I share is to help you in situations in how to react or be better as it has helped me to be victorious in life. Over and out. God bless you all may you grow from strength to strength and live your best life.
I'm down Here 👇🏾bringing in Fall!🧡🍁🍂

September 10th Blog - We have to Pardon and Forgive others as our Heavenly Father does so readily!

Happy happy Tuesday it's the Chooseday!

Tris World Word of the day

I'm telling you it doesn't show you as strong by constantly quarreling with someone over something they done. Come up higher than that. It's not about how you were the victim so much look at it through God's eyes. He wants to use you to maybe help show a person who normally fights and reacts bad that it is not necessary. You need to tap into fast forgiveness. If you saw how much God forgives you even for things you do wrong that you don't realize- a bad evil thought in your mind etc . You would forgive folk and pardon their wrong actions so much faster and love would be the testimony of your whole life!!♥️ Think- when you go and your celebration of life is on what will people say of you - he or she was rich had a nice house car and master's degree. I mean all that is great to obtain but what is with it. What type of person do you strive to be. I myself am saying this but I was never a perfect person and no one on this earth is. But as a Christian we strive to be perfected in God and to take on his likeness. Will people say of you you had a good heart towards others, were giving, you took out time when people needed you or I remember she helped me with a meal as I was homeless. Remember whether you think so or not- ONLY WHAT YOU DO FOR CHRIST WILL LAST- HES GODS SON JESUS CHRIST He died for us over 2000 years ago on a cross He was a perfect person because he was God in the flesh so his sacrifice to die to save us from our sins was great. Accept John 3:16 in your Bible or Google it on here because there are serious last day signs coming forth rapidly and there is nothing much left revealed in the last book Revelations to happen before the predicted return of Jesus to take those who know him and believe this scripture in their hearts. You see a post like this if you never experienced God and you may scroll but I'm trying to help you go for eternity to heaven and not to eternal damnation in hell. Because those who don't listen to God's followers of these type of messages we send here or in person will suffer so bad. People get offended Tok when they hear this but I'm only doing what I'm supposed to as told to share about Jesus from my Bible as a disciple. Accept God's peace, assurance of salvation,
and no worry of where you will go in the end. Ok I'm done lol have a great day and reach out if you have questions on what I just shared
Pre Fall🧡🍂🍁 look and Decor here! I started early !

Happy happy Sunday! So glad the Hurricane is over in Bermuda and I can get back to things I love. Here is today's Blog of the day I'll try to add it to Tris-World.com under the Blog category. I have other things to look at on my Blog website - Fashion Healthier Recipes, World Updates and Music Just loving this new venture I have started. I love to share so I started a mom's blog years ago and never kept it going so restarting one has gave me great joy!

August 19th 2024 Today's Blog post
Catapults help push you into your purpose but may not have to be around forever!

Have you ever heard about a person being a catapult. I've heard this in a sermon years ago. You see sometimes God puts us in people's lives to help to catapult them into their future and destiny. You were there as a friend to help lead them into a better place in their mindsets and to help them believe that they can do anything also to bring comfort . You start to believe that you are supposed to be in their lives forever but sometimes we are catapults for season. You will find that sometimes after the work of God has been done with the person and they are good your presence in their lives or job as a catapult gets basically finished it ended. You seem no longer needed and you may even wonder what happened. Don't fret or worry if it seems you are hardly called on like before in a person's life you seemed to be there as a catapult for. Don't feel used. You fulfilled God's purpose for that time. Seasons change and your presence in the person's life may have to change also. Just move on if you are trying to hold on and be present in a life you helped to catapult under God's direction. If you find you are doing most of the reaching out stop it OK!Your work is done and for all you know you may need the strength to help catapult another. We are not here for self or even to appease self to make us feel wanted or good. Our purpose on the earth and destiny may be so different from how we think things should go. God first and keep looking to him. You see this scripture " In all thy ways acknowledge him and he shall direct thy path" When you make Jesus your best friend you get less disappointed when your connections with others go for no reason. You talk to him as a friend and say- "God I can't understand this." God may even be protecting you from something and it's the reason why you striving to keep a connection or friendship with someone doesn't seem to be working. Know this! If you are a child of God after you believe in John 3:16 (Google it or your Bible it's life or complete death ) He ( Jesus) then has your back in all things no matter what it's looking like. You see this hurricane - this storm in Bermuda we just had - well we too have to learn how to ride the storms of life and come out safe and in victory! I haven't arrived or am perfect either. I'm speaking all this to myself as well lol! ♥️Know who God made you to be as well. People seemed to like to know when Trina (Tri) was this super quiete shy girl they could push around, who seemed to have a problem getting involved in much. Now that I've changed some I see persons that know of my past it's either they like to look for the timid tendencies I used to have and they like to treat you accordingly especially in situations where the issue looks like it arises again - You see the disrespect towards you, people shun you too. You see I've overcome timidity quite a lot nowadays but a person is always born I find with a weakness and a strength and that happened to be mine so you would still find certain things challenging in that area perhaps even if you have overcome much and are so different from how you was. But I'm telling you you can't show a weakness in life to others it seems folks because you are held to it a lot not by God but by man to the grave it seems . Things they probably would never receive from others they are saying and throwing at you.
Folks it's not always about half the nation in your corner as a child of God. It can involve lonely seasons like you would never believe! People you thought would be your complete supporters and be there for you choose others as their besties. Get in those scriptures the word of God- your Bible, sing a praise, put on that worship music let it consume your home. Shucks when I want to encourage myself I have a husband but I do self dates - I do things alone I love. The joy of the Lord is truly your strength - not the people! You can be seriously happy alone if that's the place you find yourself in. It's not about being on a mission to find others to put in your life either. You just iet that come naturally with God leading. Have you heard the saying I can do bad all by myself !💪🏾☝🏽 Now I'm not telling you to do bad really I'll replace that word with good but you get me don't you. Never despair in lonely seasons. God's doing a work in you even in these times . You get stronger believe it or not when you are forced to be alone. Know the process and be encouraged!😄
Pics and videos here of Hurricane Ernesto as it was progressing, my favorite red dress I'm hoping to wear again as I couldn't for my birthday Ernesto and other circumstances didn't allow me to, a pic with Bermuda scenery behind me at Specialty inn here in Bermuda on my 🎈🎈🎂 day time had a quick lunch I had a snapper fish sandwich with coleslaw and my favorite a chocolate shake with two amazing older ladies my mom and my Aunt Gloria who's my neighbor and friend. I was supposed to do Harbor nights and be next to it in my favorite spot later in the evening with people in and out of my location saying hi staying a bit and wishing me happy birthday 🎂 but Ernesto and another situation caused me to cancel. You can plan but God knows that plans can change.

BLOG "I WONT COMPLAIN"

Aug 18th 2024

-A SONG SEEMS TO BE A FAVORITE  OF MY AUNT WHOSE HUSBAND DIED RECENTLY THEY BOTH PASTOR IN MY ISLAND HOME BERMUDA HER SONG SUNG BY THE ORIGINAL ARTIST HERE BUT SHE HAS A GREAT VOICE AND HAS SANG IT FROM TIME TO TIME AND LAST NIGHT AT THE VIEWING OF MY UNCLE. NEW CREATION WORSHIP CENTER IS THE CHURCH THEY PASTOR AT ON BERKELEY RD IN BERMUDA 

COMPLAINING DOESNT HELP A NEGATIVE SITUATION IF YOU KNOW GOD THE ACTION TO TAKE IS PRAISE, PRAYER AND  QUOTE GODS PROMISES IN HIS WORD. BUT FOR CHANGE TO TAKE PLACE YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE GOD'S WORD IN YOUR HEART ♥️AND TO HAVE THE MIND OF JESUS CHRIST✝️ WHO IS GODS SON ONE OF THE GODHEAD. IT IS GOD, THE HOLY SPIRIT AND JESUS GOD= THE GODHEAD. GOD THINKS POSITIVE ABOUT ANYTHING HIS PERSPECTIVE IS DO DIFFERENT FROM MAN.  LET THIS SCRIPTURE BE SO IN YOUR LIFE " ALL THINGS WORK TOGETHER FOR  GOOD TO THEM WHO LOVE GOD TO THOSE CALLED ACCORDING TO HIS PURPOSE" - THE BIBLE 

MY UNCLE APOSTLE JIMMIE DENWIDDIE SR HIS LIFE CELEBRATION IS TODAY A MAN OF GREAT STRENGTH ANOINTING AND DEFINITELY LIVED FOR GOD. I PRAY FOR HIS IMMEDIATELY FAMILY WHO IM CLOSE WITH. HUGS TO THEM AND GODS COMFORT. THEY ARE A CLOSE KNIT FAMILY 

ITS MY 51ST BIRTHDAY🌹🎂🎁 BLOG! AUGUST 14TH!

Happy Humpday! Omg this year went by so fast I liked saying 50 😂now it's Happy 51st birthday 🥳🎂to me! Thank God for life and waking me to see this day!

Today's Blog  -Live for God not Man 

Always be true to you and your convictions on how to live your life but live for God. Let everything you do line up with the Bibles teaching. Remember he knows your heart that you want to do right. Man can easily judge you by the way you look, the way you dress, the things you say but they don't always know you internally. God's ways can be so different from man's. A lot of doctrine to be honest in our places of worship have not come from the throne of God. They came from man and how they thought things should go and even how they thought the Bible should be interpreted. It's a concern to me that people will be led astray from God because of this. You need to know this!
It would make me even happier than what I requested yesterday in my last post for you all that don't know the plan of salvation for your lives to receive it. It's as real as your hand in front of you. Don't take chances saying what she is sharing is just religion it don't take all that.
Read it Google -
💥John 3:16💥
You need this more than you need that home you purchased, the new car, the degree, the fashionable clothes & everything you try to obtain and buy! You've observed some of the celebrity stars- These things didn't do it for them. It's nothing like the Love of God and him taking a hold of your life! I still do entertaining things. It's alright to enjoy life at times in these ways but it's nothing like the presence of God in a church or a place you go where they are singing God's praises or lifting hands in praise. I've seen times a praise just changed your whole perspective and mood!

Today's prayer♥️🙏🏽 if you don't know Jesus✝️ and the decision you need to make to be his child and to see heaven - This has to come from your heart you can't just speak this if not from the heart and it be so. A heart that really means and believes this will receive - "Lord please forgive me of all my sins. Wash me in your blood you shed for me on the cross years ago. I believe you died for me and rose again in victory. You were a pure sacrifice so you were like the lambs years ago that were sacrificed for our sins in the temple. Come into my heart and change me from the inside out to be more like you from day to day and help me to share with others this gift of salvation you give freely to those who believe so they escape hell where people are going if they reject you. Thank you for cleaning me in the inside, forgiving me and my salvation gift💝✝️ today!

Be a Leader not a follower

Happy Tuesday! It's the Chooseday! It's time to -Go Back to School.🎒📚 A word to the children it could apply to an adult as well. 

Be a leader and not a follower. Often you hang out with individuals and you know they are not doing things that are correct moral standards. Children and adults need to learn how to be ok even if you stand for what is right alone!
We still have summer 💐🌺⛱️in my online boutique but we also have Fall🍂🍁 fashion coming in and there are some great options here and a great -20% event! SITEWIDE! We deliver to USA/Canada but other countries have opportunity to receive merchandise You just need to have a USA mailbox in your country Our boutique I feel is better as you get the discount on event times as well as a -25 % affiliate discount. I'll say most boutiques may only give you whatever your discount is for the event and not the other Message me if you want to join I've been saving a lot with a boutique that works with you in this way There's a few options in my Fashion Tips category For to the top right lines on

Good day to one and all here is Tris World Blog today!♥️ 
August 10th 2024.

SELF CONTROL A FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT

The fruit of the spirit is something that is talked about if you come into church circles. Christians are taught to have the fruits of the spirit which include Love, joy peace gentleness, forgiveness and self-control.

Today I'll talk on self-control.
If you have a difference of opinion with someone and they start to escalate as in they shout and scream, you can be the better person in the situation by exercising self-control and not matching their energy basically. You just take the stance of not screaming and raising your voice. You can just discuss the matter with them and I'd try to use a good tone in your voice more gentle. I've had times people tell me that I sound irritated in the tone of my voice and I didn't mean to sound that way. It's hard to be totally perfect but that may be something a person can work on to be sure that they go by the Bible and how it directs you to have a "soft answer which turns away wrath." I've seen times I really want to mouth someone off but I hold on with dear life to do things God's✝️☝🏽 way and talk to the person in a way they could receive more. I may even say to them that they are wronging me. See there are some times people will hurt you and even turn it all around to say you are hurting them after you say something about it. You say to yourself how on earth did this switcheroo happen. 😂 I was the one treated badly.

I always tell anyone that God's word📖✝️☝🏽 tells us everything we need to know on how to live right. If you show God you are trying to get along with others and forgiving others who really don't deserve it he rewards you. I've seen it first hand.

Have a great day everyone! The weather in Bermuda has been great only occasional showers☔ but I know Canada in my area had bad weather and I see it may be showers coming. I'll say rain is very needed here . It has been looking dry on the lawns and everywhere. Peace and love to everyone here!♥️

Saturday August 10th 2024

Friday August 9th Blog 

Good day one and all!☝🏽♥️
Here's your word of the day 

We do have to choose our friends wisely the Bible ✝️📖says but be careful that in doing so you end up disappearing from the lives of people who really cared about you. You saw they were going through things and they weren't happy around you so you decide they are toxic for you and bringing you down. You see what can happen not wishing anything bad on anyone but it does occur that the person who shunned or left the person going through by themselves ends up going through trauma or something to make them super sad as well but they feel they can't reach out to the other person they left to themselves because the lightbulb💡 comes on that they were not there for them and now they need somebody!

Monday July 29th 2024

Happy Monday! 🏖️🩴💙🩵❤️💙Tris World Blog post of the day on this Cupmatch🏏 Cricket Classic Week!
Check out a new Fashion💃🏾 Category post share on Bermuda shorts, my cousin Amaris Cupmatch merchandise if you are in Bermuda under Fashion, a new post in my World Updates category and everything else in my blog I'm sharing on Tris-world.com.

Today's Blog
There's a fine line between taking on constructive criticism and doing whatever someone says you should do all the time. The 1st is ok but the 2nd you shouldnt do unless it's a good idea for you to change what you were going to do. Never let someone see they have that kind of power over you that you won't have your own mind or opinions but you'll take one whatever they say. I believe they will lose respect for you as a person . Each person is unique be sure you have others close that would listen to you just as good as you listen to them never 100 percent them and never you. You have got to know this is all to do with loving yourself. God✝️❤️ didn't make you a slave to others. The Bible✝️❤️📖 says God tells you you really are the head and not the tail therefore you are a LEADER‼️‼️‼️

Merchandise shown here is from my cousin Amari last year If you want Bermuda Cupmatch💙🩵❤️💙 merchandise tops and hats message here I can send you his 20 percent off sale pics They are also on a few posts down on my Facebook wall. I can direct you to Amari if you need You can directly access him as well I'll put it here

Winning In this Life - A Way to Focus! 

It's July 23 I woke to the news later of my dear Uncle he had passed earlier in the morning 

My Tribute to my Uncle Jimmie♥️

Rest in Peace dear Uncle Jimmie Denwiddie I was not sharing much today in a post on Facebook but I believe my Uncle would love for me to share Christian inspiration as he always was ministering to others so today I continue on as he did always when he was living.

CHRISTMAS 2022 I SAW MOM AND DAD MY SIS AND NIECE  AND MY AUNT AND UNCLE AND COUSINS. WE TOOK A LOVELY PICTURE ILL TREASURE ALWAYS. ILL SEE HIM IN HEAVEN ONE DAY WITH MY GRANDPA AND MY BROTHER AND OTHERS I KNOW WHO MADE IT IN 

Good day everyone it is called Cupmatch time in Bermuda and soon it will be the day August 1st Thursday is the start day then Friday the 2nd. Cup 🏆match is a cricket🏏 game that is played the end of July or beginning of August it all started to celebrate Emancipation from slavery years ago! People go to the cricket field and dress up a lot in their team colors my team is St George's light blue and dark blue or navy and Somerset is red and blue.

Soooo-

Tris World  share about Winning!💪🏽🏆.

My Cricket team St George's🩵💙 has not won the cup for Cricket in a long time for the annual Cup match game. It has been disappointing to me as every year it keeps happening but there was a time we used to win almost every year as well. Thinking about this today got me a list to share for you on Winning. So don't worry if you feel you are not winning you have no finances to pay your bills you are so sick physically, you just didn't have the means to do much financially, you are emotionally sick, you have no food and you have no shelter. These are the many difficulties we have in life nowadays!
Faith in God helps us to look beyond all circumstances and still see ourselves as winning one day. God has precious promises in his Bible that pertain to many of these things above. He promises us healing, he promised us provision and we don't have to feel guilty if you don't have these things yet. Do you know sometimes God does not do microwave miracles!☝🏽😲 We have his promise scriptures but at times he chooses for us to wait to receive them. I know because it's happened to me I prayed🙏🏽🙏🏽 for something to change and it took quite a while but one day it did change. ☝🏽💃🏾 Some things he does are gradual some things are right away. The stands to take in the wait is to stand on the promises of God in your Bible pertaining to your situation. You can go in and look at your concordance and look up anything that has to do with your situation. Another thing to do alone with this would be to make sure that you are believing in your heart these promises. Many people look in the mirror or quote scriptures that are positive to their situation but are not actually believing in faith for these promises in their heart properly, this causes them to not receive the manifestation of what they want to see in their life. I don't know everything but I do know that there are times that people are believing and they may not in the end get what they want. Now why this happens I have no idea all I know it says in the Bible that we should believe the promises of God and that's to the end no matter what we see going on in our lives. The last thing that I have been taught in the Bible through sermons or just looking in the Bible is that people in the Bible have received their victory in situations by praising God. So even in your sadness even in your weakness just Praise from your lips to God, raise a hand if you can even dance to and uplifting praise and worship song that is glorifying God! An example of this in the Bible in a situation changing is when Paul was in a prison and the praise is went up and he was able to get out of prison because God made A way to make the cell open up for him. So imagine that if God could do something like that he could do a bunch in all of these situations above. There is even records that Jesus when he was on the earth who is God's son who came to Earth to save us from our sins (John 3 :16 read in the Bible or Google it if you don't know it It's LiFe!) Jesus raised up a man named Lazarus from the dead. Don't think that doesn't happen today because there have been accounts in worship services that people have been raised from the dead in today's world as well because of God. So lastly☝🏽 having faith in God is very important to having life! No matter how dark ⚫it is remember this very common saying "We walk by faith and not by sight" everything I'm sharing here would pertain to a person who has given their life to Jesus Christ ✝️who is God's son.

You can do this by this simple prayer🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️

"Lord Jesus I'm a sinner I need you to forgive me for everything I've done in my life that's not been like living for you. I believe you died on the cross years ago for my sins and rose again the 3rd day after in victory! This very act allowed me to gain access to talk to you in prayer and to receive salvation if I believe in you. I accept you into my life as Lord and saviour and I ask you to change me one day at a time into the image of your son Jesus. Thank you Lord for saving me this day so I can be with you when I die or if you come to take your people who love ♥️you with you at the end of the age. "

Here is all about my country Bermuda's🇧🇲 Annual Classic Cupmatch Cricket game!🩵🩵🩵💙🏏💙💙💙ST GEORGES'S!

I'm HERE IN MY blue💙 and blue St George's colors for Cupmatch 2024 on August 1st and 2nd. 

Dont Ever Get Discouraged!

Monday July 22nd

Tris World- My Word of the day! Tris-world.com Don't you get discouraged ok!☝🏽♥️ You always showing up supporting others and giving a positive word to them lifted them up and things you said inspired them. Don't you curl up and hide in your house Your absence will become a miss to so many the day you are gone! Keep doing what you feel lead by God to do!♥️

Do things Scared to overcome and having Victory dealing with challenging people 

Doing things scared is the way to overcome it.☝🏽♥️I know this first hand has I in my twenties through myself into many jobs that required me to have to be out front and I just felt that that sure was not me. Sometimes we want to do things we are passionate about or that we find easy but there are sometimes in life we really should be doing things that we find hard because they can help us to be better people and to overcome in the areas that we have that are weaker. I went from grocery clerk to sales associate to model  to nursing assistant to security officer and to receptionist. It could be something that I have missed and even more jobs I have done in my lifetime but what the point is is that all of these together have helped me to be the person I am today which I feel is a more confident well-rounded person. I know I feel I can talk to anybody over the conversation than before all of these things were great challenges for me there are still times in some of these areas I am hesitant but I am almost 100% better than I was. 

And the type of personality I have I have noticed through the years in many circumstances people tend to overlook you or they tend to not want to use you if there is a place of leadership in an establishment because God gives you more so a  reserved quiet personality it is seen in the world at times as a weaker personality. In this type of personality it is a strong personality because it takes a very strong person to deal with people when they come against you and you choose to be the one who doesn't retaliate back and just hold your peace We are stronger in our personalities to do this others are not.. It takes a strong person because most people right away feel the urge to argue with others in situations like this. You will find all sorts of people in all sorts of different areas of life whether it be on the job, in a boutique, in a grocery store at church just anywhere people will be people. You have to learn how to deal. In church you will have those who not say hi, never let you into their clique, never call on you to do things more esteemed but people that accept God into their lives will never be perfect either. Don't go looking for a perfect church it can't be found. You need to know God will always be God,  be real and the only true living God your stance to take is to always be taking his example and not be looking at the people so much of what's going on bad in a church to make you leave unless it's like totally wrong teaching or doctrine. The people are not taking you to heaven. It will be you whether you make it. Your actions whether you fought to the end of your last day on the earth to live for God. I have gathered  strength through my life dealing in many situations. I thank God for how how far he's bought me because it  used to be a time I would want to cry and really get emotionally upset in situations with people to the point of having to seek out even professional help if it got too bad. All that I have gone through I can see how it is helped me to be a person who can now help others who have experienced my challenges and my type of personality in overcoming timidity. In this personality you basically have to learn how to speak up when others try to keep coming against you there is a time that you can just hold your peace but other times you just need to say something to someone about them being disrespectful. People do respect you more than you speak up that they are doing the things that they are doing regardless if they knew from the beginning that they were mean. There are just some mean-spirited people on this earth that love to just cause disagreements or friction. Sometimes is this with the stronger type personalities or build a type personalities that like to come against your type of personality which is a More meek and mild spirit sometimes they feel that they have the better personality or they try to act to you as they are more confident and stronger than you. It's really not about any personalities being any better than others because God made us all. 

As you all know by reading this blog I am big on a christian-based when it comes to how I share so my advice to you if you have been having these similar challenges is that you need to know that you can become victorious in your personality if you feel that it has many weaknesses that you just can't seem to shake. You keep putting yourself out there in places or situations in which you feel are hard for you. Examples are above when it comes to jobs and you will find that one day just like I did you are just this different person years later and you are so proud of the beautiful you you became. It's just like when you hear about the butterfly that came out of the cocoon. You will start out as a caterpillar and that is exactly what you will be in the end of butterfly beautiful strong and you would have overcome too many challenges. Be encouraged everyone enjoy this day!♥️

HOW TO KEEP YOUR HAPPY WITHIN!

July 17th 2024 

Happiness😁 most times is an inside job. I saw this as a quote on a pin. Sometimes their are legit things to be sad about for sure you lose somebody, a job, a house. These are big disappointments. We are human and we can be sad😭 for a while at these type of things. I think if we are in a constant state of unhappiness lasting like years we do have a huge problem. There are times it's the way we are thinking on a problem. Instead of saying it's bad right now but things will get better we say - I'll never get out of this one! God✝️ says life and death are in the power of the tongue, even if you feel it you are to take the scripture "The joy🕺🏽💃🏽🤸🏽‍♀️📖✝️ of the Lord is my strength" You see God's word is life! A lot in our life is pressing through. Another great scripture " Press towards the mark of the prize of the high calling in Jesus Christ" for example this involves praying meditating on scriptures to do with happiness and joy. It could even mean doing things to help you such as an outing with a friend, going to church services, going for a walk in nature. a massage, a trip to the salon, nails done! All these things help a person's well being to be happier in the midst of circumstances!

Well I've been in a real down 3 times in my life where I just couldn't snap out of it for a bit. But I held on to God's promises he eventually brought me out every time.

See happiness can be cultivated by you telling yourself I will be happy and I will not get sad over this. But you have to know there is power in God's word and prayers. God hears you and if you can't get out in your own he makes a, way. I'm telling you I know sometimes you just can't shake it. I do get it. But God can shake it. I don't even remember the exact day I was happy again and the bad moods gone but I do know God did it because I couldn't do it in my own strength.

Determine in your heart to press and fight 🗡️⚔️💂🏽‍♀️for your happiness. Remember this too. A thankful heart helps you. Counting your blessings brings your happy back too. A merry heart the Bible says it's like medicine. You know there is always someone having it much worse than you. No food clothing home friends Some have all these and are still sad. But chin up I say to you because trust me if I can press through and choose happy you can too. Things come up against me and sadden me oh yes! But it's fighting all the time to not let things get you down and also to be content in whatever state you are in!
This is an example here of things I do to stay happy. I enjoyed a Mash up Bowl from Mary Browns chicken. I go out on occasion with people im friendly with. Just getting out of the house if you are a stay at home person is great for you mentally. Staying cooped up inside every day I don't think is the best for your well being. Fresh air, sunshine looking at greenery adds to your happiness.
Also I'll be helping passing out event cards/ invites to church or whatever is needed at the Festival of the Bay for my Pentecostals of Quinte Church soon. Again that is another way to be happy😁 giving to others and sharing God's 💕 that makes you happy as well.
🎵Sing this song with me!🎵
Have a good day everyone! 🙋🏽‍♀️♥️☝🏽

LOVING OTHERS IS GODS WAY

JULY 15TH 2024

Happy Monday!♥️
Today's Blog share- 

Do your best to bring to the table LOVE! ♥️ God knows when you are trying and he rewards you for it!☝🏽👍🏾
Love your enemies or those who come up against you and try to cause friction and take away the kind you! 

If you notice individuals come up against you and it's for petty things  sometimes others don't know how to communicate in anyway besides to argue and fight. They never received the love they needed from parents possibly or just had bad experiences they don't trust others.All in all God is big on forgiveness you are to be a peacemaker and sometimes not even talk back hold your peace and whisper a prayer to God. He always works things out for your good when you walk in integrity before him and still treat others nice when they have been mean.

Below is a great song from the artist Etana. I love this one.

The Importance of Inclusion for All in Your Organization 

Thursday July 11th 2024- Blog 

Happy Thursday!🙋🏽‍♀️♥️ 
In any organisation from workplace, community centers, churches etc the morale will be so much better if the attitude of inclusion is there. Never have the same people doing everything It has a look like whether it's correct or not that only that set of folk are picked to do it all and want the praise for everything. You will find new people come in and see that they can't really participate or give their input or if they have the talent in that same area & they know they would never be used. In turn some people who join the organization decide to move on. It's not so much because they really wanted to be lifted up or praised for everything. It's just that when we have gifts 🎁and talents really and truly we should be in places where they can be used and not lay dormant. Anywhere that is not doing that for you may possibly not be the place for you. You may find that you can wait things out because if you are new people want you to sit down a bit until you are trustworthy to participate in higher things. What do you need to know when that turns into a very long season and you are just definitely not being used.
Include old and new people in the running of an organization with their input in whatever is going on and you will find it to really thrive with happier menbers! I get it! We all want to feel as though we are the experts on something over someone else at times. Sometimes we will know this but to totally not include others in an organization to do things because we feel we are better at it may not be the solution. People notice these things and it can be a complete turn off and have the feeling of lack of love towards others. If this sounds like something that resonates with you or something you are even doing without realizing it so much I hope you take this as great advice to help you be a better person to others and not be mad im saying this. When I do something that I head up I'm always trying to get participation from others with their input sometimes I find that people want to be quiet and don't want to get involved they just want to listen and be directed. I never like for it to be all about me and I'm telling people where it's at and not allowing them options.
Some of Tris World Blogs make you feel good and some will challenge you in different ways Folks I've never been a counselor and I have never been an official pulpit minister or have any position in church ministry that would be called a leader but I have been under some great leadership throughout my whole lifetime. I'm what they would call a PK kid when I was young My dad was and Elder and when he was younger a Pastor. My grandfather was a Bishop and I have learned a ton about life and how to do things God's way. No it's not that I don't have anything under my belt as far as to give you advice. I did take courses in psychology and I have obtained diplomas and degrees in things. I'll tell you what you may not believe it but your total help can come from the Lord God to make you excellent in things to say to others, also excellent as a online entrepreneur or a regular entrepreneur in the community. God knows all really and he can impart on to you wisdom without you even getting into the books! Trust & Know it! Hope this word of the day has you thinking on how you can improve in this area if this pertains to you! Love you all Enjoy your day!

Tri

The Bishops Granddaughter 

Getting Your Mind and Emotions Stronger 

Good day to everyone!,🙋🏽‍♀️ I want to tell you all that keeping a positive attitude in life helps you go a long way.💜💪🏽 God even says in the Bible things like "Whatsoever things are of good report think on these things" instead of bad things or the negative. A negative outlook on  life can actually make a person sick if they are not careful.

Another thing we do with our mind is to hold a grudge or not give grace and forgiveness to others when they hurt us. We have to realize in this world there are many out there that go through things and internal hurt. Sometimes you are interacting with people and you just find that individuals always look to finding a way to cause friction. Sometimes these type of people do have a problem within. When you encounter them you must try to hold on to your mind, your emotions and strength. The saying "hurting people hurt people" is so true. The thing is though when you do not forgive people it hurts you more internally. It has been documented that unforgiveness causes people to be unwell. I've even heard if you hold  on to  things over time it can cause things such as stroke or cancer and other illness. Every time someone hurts you you have to say to your mind "this person is really not attacking me they have a problem within", especially if you know you have not done them any wrong. In the Bible our heavenly father  or our God is always easy to forgive and we should take his example and be ready to forgive others as well. Some people can be totally toxic and always come against you and you may have to make a decision to not have them always having access to your life so easy. You can do this and still walk in love with the person when you see them. There are people out there that continue to keep people that they know are toxic in their life and they are finding they are getting mentally very sick. I had to let people go who treated me not on an acceptable level and always I could feel saw me as less than. Since that day my mind and mental health have been so good and I can feel the strength in me. I surrounded myself with new people who I could see had the heart for God you would want in a friend. Some people that are this way don't even realize how they are. They would even try to turn things around and say that you are not right or  you are not a forgiving person no problem with it and never say sorry or forgive you.You may never hear the word "Sorry" but your duty as a person who loves God and wants to live a life with good morals should just pray ask for strength and quickly forgive in your heart as God does for you. Love covers a multitude of sins it says in the Bible and when you do this you will find you come off more victorious as a person. You will see that others see God in you because they expected retaliation. Pray, hold your peace no shouting or emotions getting angry and let God fight the battle and watch how you are a conqueror in the situation. Make an impact in your world! Hope this helps someone.

It is my son Ashirs birthday🥳🎉 today! He will be 15 years old.🙏🏽☝🏽⛹🏽‍♂️🏀 Happy birthday son! My mind and emotions were challenged with him when I got diagnosed with postpartum depression. Sometimes things are hormonal because I wasn't really sad before childbirth. I fought it a long time but you know through it all I prayed, got out in nature, spent time with family & friends and  above all I took hold of God's promises I saw in his Bible to heal me. Before long I was well and back feeling like myself again. God is good!

Remember never feel sharing about something you went through is so embarrassing or makes you seem less strong to others. Watch that pride thing in your life. Life's not about always appearing perfect. Of course you don't go around every day sharing it but people really need others that are real and who have gone through the same thing so they know there is a light at the end of their dark tunnel!

Love always Trina (Tri) L. Graham 

The Bishops Granddaughter 

Faith in God Helps in Hard Times☝🏽

July 6th 2024 

Friends you all know most of you of my faith in Jesus Christ and my belief in John 3:16 If you don't know this it is in the Bible also Google it. I believe Jesus is the only way we can have eternal life if we die before he comes and this is predicted in the last book of the Bible- Revelations. I know many may think this is just a religion to believe but I know it's the truth. Much evidence is around that Jesus existed and of his miracles he performed. Let's think of it this way. Would you want to take the chance and think -" Im not sure this is true" then it becomes true and you end up during the time when Jesus comes to take his  Christian believers to heaven  and you are left behind to be killed  to make it to heaven or if you don't ever accept him into your life you go to hell ( The Bible says in Hell is terrible! It is weeping always and gnashing of teeth! Can you imagine the torment!) or would you pray 🙏🏽 and ask God-" Lord if this be true let it come alive to me and reveal in my heart it is true and Lord I just decide to accept you and your salvation Jesus because I'm not sure but I want to live for you  if it is true and see heaven and fellow family and friends who will be there as well." You pray this prayer and feel  the peace of God rest in your soul as a witness God is real and he loves you! It's nothing like a faith in the one true God and to know no matter what happens sickness, no finances, friendships lost that you have a hope and a friend always in Jesus. He never leaves you or forsakes you and that is in your Bible.

With Love 

Trina (Tri) Graham 

The Bishops Granddaughter